We begin our sessions together by defining the problem as clearly and thoroughly as possible, listening very carefully to each partner's perceptions and experience. I guide you both as  issues carried  from your original families arise  and help you understand how family history influences your present relationship for good or ill. To deal with your points of conflict and unhappiness, I work with both of you to improve communication, negotiation, empathy, and your sense of humor. Through these, and other means, resolution of conflicts is often obtained and a more accepting, enhanced, and fulfilling relationship follows.